谢谢你给我面子，自信的孩子，都是这样养出来的

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<p style="margin: 25px 8px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.621714px; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="color: rgb(110, 110, 110); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">作者 | 路汐</span></p><p style="margin: 25px 8px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.621714px; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p><br/></p><section style="margin: 25px 8px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px;">“就你长大了有什么用，我跟你讲，画画能当饭吃吗？”</span><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></section><section style="margin: 25px 8px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px;">最近看了一个节目《你会怎么做》，里面有一位母亲在大庭广众之下，训斥孩子爱画画的行为。</span></section><section style="margin: 25px 8px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px;">原因是孩子在上课时不好好学习，喜欢画画，又被老师说了。</span></section><section style="margin: 25px 8px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px;">然后，妈妈和老师通完电话后，立即就在餐厅里教训起女儿。</span></section><section data-role="outer" label="Powered by 135editor.com" style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><blockquote style="margin: 1em 0px; padding: 4px 0px 0px 10px; border-left: 3px solid rgb(219, 219, 219); color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.498039); font-size: 15px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="margin: 0px 8px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; color: rgb(110, 110, 110);">“上课不好好学习，你说你丢不丢人啊，我跟你说你丢不丢人，妈妈都觉得丢脸。”</strong></span></section></blockquote></section><section style="margin: 25px 8px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></section><section data-role="outer" label="Powered by 135editor.com" style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><blockquote style="margin: 1em 0px; padding: 4px 0px 0px 10px; border-left: 3px solid rgb(219, 219, 219); color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.498039); font-size: 15px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="margin: 0px 8px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; color: rgb(110, 110, 110);">“你画画不能当饭吃，如果是妈妈就不活了。”</strong></span></section></blockquote></section><section style="margin: 25px 8px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px;">妈妈完全不顾孩子的感受，任凭女儿在那里哭的声嘶力竭，妈妈都不愿停下来，一直在公众场合对女儿进行严厉的批评。</span><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></section><section style="margin: 25px 8px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px;">看着这一幕，很是心疼这个孩子。</span></section><section style="margin: 25px 8px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px;">孩子有自己的爱好本就没有错，妈妈不支持也就算了，还在大庭广众之下，如此地大声训斥孩子。</span></section><section style="margin: 25px 8px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px;">妈妈觉得自己丢脸，可难道训斥孩子就有面子嘛？</span></section><section style="margin: 25px 8px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px;">我们大人对于自己的面子很是看重并维护，可却不曾想过维护孩子的面子。</span></section><section style="margin: 25px 8px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; color: rgb(5, 57, 81);"><strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">父母总是不分场合地对孩子，或是义正言辞地教训，或是揭短嘲笑，那些话语就像一把把利剑，扎在孩子的心上。</span></strong></span></section><section style="margin: 25px 8px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.621714px; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></section><section style="margin: 15px 8px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); line-height: 1.75em; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; color: rgb(5, 57, 81);"><strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">“妈妈，可不可以给我点面子，留点自尊？”</span></strong></span><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></section><section style="margin: 25px 8px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px;">李湘曾因为批评女儿，被王诗龄怒挂电话的视频而送上了热搜。</span></section><section style="margin: 25px 8px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px;">视频中，李湘开心地给女儿打电话，结果女儿的态度非常不好，接通电话就是不耐烦地说“干嘛”。</span></section><section style="margin: 25px 8px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px;">连妈妈说很想她，王诗龄都是快速回了一句“我一点也不想你，你没什么事我就挂了”，不给妈妈一点反应的时间，就迅速地挂断了李湘的电话。</span></section><section style="margin: 25px 8px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px;">原来，是因为王诗龄的老师给李湘打电话，说她作业没有交，李湘不问青红皂白，就直接批评了王诗龄。</span></section><section style="margin: 25px 8px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px;">妈妈的这种做法让王诗龄很生气，觉得妈妈不尊重自己。</span></section><section style="margin: 25px 8px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px;">事情一出，网友各有各的想法。</span></section><section style="margin: 25px 8px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px;">但有一位网友的评论，真实地反应了中国父母和孩子间的一种可悲现象：</span></section><section style="margin: 25px 8px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px;">百善孝为先，孩子无论对错，都不可以忤逆长辈，尤其更不能跟“我（指父母）”作对。</span></section><section style="margin: 25px 8px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px;">生活中确实有很多父母，打着“你是我生的孩子”的旗号摆谱，好面子胜过爱孩子，他们首先想到的是自己尊严受到了冒犯，而不是去关注孩子。</span></section><section style="margin: 25px 8px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px;">但孩子不懂父母的做法，也无法理解这一切，他们感受到的是“爸爸妈妈一点都不给我留面子”，自己不被尊重，是难过和委屈。</span></section><section style="margin: 25px 8px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px;">对孩子来说，面子就是自尊。</span></section><section style="margin: 25px 8px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; color: rgb(5, 57, 81);"><strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">父母不给孩子留面子，就等于在扼杀孩子的自尊心。</span></strong></span></section><section style="margin: 25px 8px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px;">在《人性的弱点》一书中这样写：</span><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px;">纵使别人犯错，而我们是对的，如果没有为别人保留面子，就会毁了一个人。</span></section><section style="margin: 25px 8px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; color: rgb(0, 0, 0);"><strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">父母总是不给孩子留面子，会使得孩子变得自卑怯懦，难以自信起来。</span></strong></span></section><section style="margin: 25px 8px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px;">教育孩子的前提，是了解孩子、尊重孩子。</span></section><section style="margin: 25px 8px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px;">李湘在意识到自己没有做好时，再次打通电话，温和地和女儿说“王诗龄，你不能这么跟妈妈说话，妈妈会伤心的，咱俩和好得了。”</span><img data-type="png" data-ratio="0.554561717352415" data-w="559" data-backw="559" data-backh="310" src="http://www.jrzs.com/plugin.php?id=wcn_editor:wx_img&url=https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/C5tQVZics5bLE9udq0D6mEmalGU7Xs2AUqyZbOBPxcTxztAUOOHXRqTyIEib9KTdAMsZTrHic4aC332d3awy7uuhg/640?wx_fmt=png&tp=webp&wxfrom=5&wx_lazy=1&wx_co=1" _width="512px" class="" crossorigin="anonymous" alt="图片" data-fail="0" style="letter-spacing: 0.544px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; background-color: rgb(238, 237, 235); border-width: 1px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(238, 237, 235); background-size: 22px; background-position: center center; background-repeat: no-repeat; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; height: auto !important; width: 512px !important; visibility: visible !important;"/><span style="font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px;">王岳伦也在旁边耐心地沟通，李湘和女儿道歉后，两个人才和好如初。</span></section><section style="margin: 25px 8px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px;">王岳伦说女儿自尊心比较强，一旦发生父母冤枉、误会自己的事情，就会不开心，认为自己没有得到尊重。</span></section><section style="margin: 25px 8px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px;">其实，不止是王诗龄，每个孩子都有自尊心，他们都渴望被尊重。</span></section><section style="margin: 25px 8px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; color: rgb(5, 57, 81);"><strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">父母不给孩子尊重，可能会让孩子心里失去了力量。</span></strong></span></section><section style="margin: 25px 8px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.621714px; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></section><section style="margin: 15px 8px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); line-height: 1.75em; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; color: rgb(5, 57, 81);"><strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">孩子被尊重，才会努力变得更好</span></strong></span><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></section><section style="margin: 25px 8px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px;">哲学家约翰·洛克说过：</span></section><section data-role="outer" label="Powered by 135editor.com" style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><blockquote style="margin: 1em 0px; padding: 4px 0px 0px 10px; border-left: 3px solid rgb(219, 219, 219); color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.498039); font-size: 15px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="margin: 0px 8px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; color: rgb(110, 110, 110);">“<strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">父母越不宣扬子女的过错，则子女对自己的名誉就越看重，因而也会更小心维护别人对自己的好评。</strong>”</strong></span></section></blockquote></section><section style="margin: 25px 8px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px;">著名作家席慕容，小时候有次考试成绩差，害怕妈妈批评，就偷偷改了名次。</span><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></section><section style="margin: 25px 8px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px;">对于改名次，她自己心里都打鼓，做好了挨骂的准备。</span></section><section style="margin: 25px 8px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px;">没想到，妈妈看了只是说了一句：</span></section><p><br/></p><blockquote data-type="2" data-url="" data-author-name="" data-content-utf8-length="51" data-source-title="" style="margin: 1em 0px; padding: 4px 0px 0px 10px; border-left: 3px solid rgb(219, 219, 219); color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.498); font-size: 15px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="margin: 0px 8px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; line-height: 1.75em;"><strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; color: rgb(110, 110, 110);">“看看，老师怎么把成绩单弄得这么脏，都有些看不清楚了。你明天问一下老师，然后再把成绩告诉妈妈，好吗？”</span></strong></section></section></blockquote><p><br/></p><section style="margin: 25px 8px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px;">妈妈的这番话，让席慕容明白了，其实是妈妈在装糊涂，给自己留面子。</span><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></section><section style="margin: 25px 8px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px;">席慕容特别感激妈妈保护了她的自尊，第二天就和妈妈坦白了自己考得差还改了名次，并下定决心要好好读书。</span></section><section style="margin: 25px 8px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px;">有的父母认为孩子犯错就应该毫不留情指出，并给予严厉批评，不然会养成坏毛病。</span></section><section style="margin: 25px 8px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px;">其实并不是，如果父母懂得给孩子留面子，尊重孩子，用温和的方式解决问题，就会让孩子充分认识到自己的过错。</span></section><section style="margin: 25px 8px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; color: rgb(0, 0, 0);"><strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">批评孩子没有错，但批评孩子的方式、语气和以及父母在批评时的身体情绪不能错。</span></strong></span></section><section style="margin: 25px 8px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px;">孩子是有自尊和荣誉感的，他不会因为父母的宽容而得寸进尺。</span></section><section style="margin: 25px 8px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px;">反而会因为父母的爱护，因感受到尊重和信任，反而想要更加努力变好，成为更好的人。</span></section><section style="margin: 25px 8px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px;">而如果父母不分场合、不留情面地评判孩子的过失和训斥孩子，只会让孩子记住自己受伤了。</span></section><section style="margin: 25px 8px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px;">孩子的自尊心被父母践踏，身心所承受的伤害是我们想象不到的，有的甚至会导致他们不顾一切想要逃离。</span></section><section style="margin: 25px 8px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; color: rgb(5, 57, 81);"><strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">对孩子唯有尊重，才会让他们变得更好，就如林清玄所说“好孩子是已唤醒了内心的种子”。</span></strong></span></section><section style="margin: 25px 8px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); line-height: 1.75em; 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padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.621714px; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></section><section style="margin: 15px 8px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); line-height: 1.75em; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; 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box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px;">有句话叫“爱是本能，会爱是能力”。</span></section><section style="margin: 25px 8px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px;">其实，我们做父母也一样，想做好父母的心是本能的，但能做好父母却需要能力。</span></section><section style="margin: 25px 8px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px;">看过一个小视频，女人一路批评犯错的儿子，可是孩子油盐不进，怎么都不肯认错。&nbsp;</span></section><section style="margin: 25px 8px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px;">孩子的态度简直叫妈妈气炸，然而当他俩进了电梯后，母亲再也没有当着同乘的邻居面前数落孩子一句。</span></section><section style="margin: 25px 8px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px;">等其他人都下了电梯，原先态度傲慢的儿子，开口第一句竟是“妈妈，谢谢你，刚刚给我留了面子。”</span></section><section style="margin: 25px 8px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px;">妈妈的维护，终于让孩子收起一身尖锐的刺，敞开心扉开始与母亲沟通。&nbsp;</span><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px;"></span></section><section style="margin: 25px 8px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px;">每个人都是有自己的尊严的，孩子更是如此。</span></section><section style="margin: 25px 8px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px;">教育家苏霍姆林斯基说：</span></section><p><br/></p><blockquote data-type="2" data-url="" data-author-name="" data-content-utf8-length="39" data-source-title="" style="margin: 1em 0px; padding: 4px 0px 0px 10px; border-left: 3px solid rgb(219, 219, 219); color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.498); font-size: 15px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="margin: 0px 8px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; line-height: 1.75em;"><strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; letter-spacing: 1px; color: rgb(110, 110, 110);">儿童的尊严是人类心灵里最敏感的角落，保护儿童的自尊心就是保护儿童的潜在力量。</span></strong></section></section></blockquote><p><br/></p><section style="margin: 25px 8px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; color: rgb(5, 57, 81);"><strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">愿所有的父母，都能保护孩子的自尊，用满腔爱意唤醒孩子美好向上的力量，让他们成为阳光自信的人，去做更好的自己。</span></strong></span></section><p><br/></p><link rel="stylesheet" href="http://www.jrzs.com/source/plugin/wcn_editor/public/wcn_editor_fit.css?v134_G6t" id="wcn_editor_css"/>